星期二, 十二月 25, 2012

Relationship at work

If you're looking for ways to create a stronger partnership with your workplace superiors, forget brown-nosing and don't worry about finding some elaborate gift. Instead, focus on these simple strategies:

1. Go the extra mile. Remember that your job description outlines the basic tasks and duties required to maintain employment. But doing the bare minimum is no way to impress your boss. Make it a habit to go over and beyond from time to time. Exceeding expectations is always a pleasant surprise, whether you're delivering a project ahead of schedule or volunteering to take on new responsibilities.

2. Anticipate needs. Don't wait to be told what to do. Engage your brain and be proactive. Look for predictable patterns in the workplace and take action early. Knowing you're on top of things helps make life easier and less stressful for your boss—he doesn't have to crack the whip to know you're getting the work done. When your boss asks you to put together a report, there's no better response than handing it over immediately and saying, "I thought you'd want that so I already did it." Bonus: You look like a mind reader.

3. Make improvements. The status quo doesn't always represent the best, most effective way of doing business. Put on your critical thinking cap and see if there are small improvements you can make that will have a big impact on your team or the organization as a whole. If you can tweak a process so it improves quality, reduces costs, or increases efficiency, your value will skyrocket—and you'll make your boss look good in the process.

4. Stay positive. Who needs another Negative Nancy around? No one. Most workplaces have too many as is. A positive, optimistic person can be like a ray of sunshine in a high-pressure environment. You don't have to go overboard here; even just a simple smile can help ease the tension. Soon, people will associate you with feeling good—and that's helpful for any relationship.

5. Bring solutions. Problems are unavoidable in most work environments and, yes, your boss is there to help you sort them out. But don't put all the work on his shoulders. When you encounter a challenge, take ownership of the situation and brainstorm solutions on your own before engaging your boss. If and when you do require his assistance, outline the options you've considered and be specific about what help you need from him. Remember, the easier you make life for your boss, the easier your life will be.

6. Get (a little) personal. The workplace doesn't have to be 100 percent professional 100 percent of the time. A little appropriate personal interaction reminds everyone that we're not just robots; we all have lives outside of work too. You and your boss probably have more in common than you even realize. Perhaps you share a favorite pastime or sports team. Maybe you have children in the same grade at school. Connecting on this kind of personal level strengthens the relationship and creates a deeper sense of authenticity. Just remember to commit important information to memory (like the name of his spouse and kids, for example) and keep the conversation light. Politics, religion, and sex remain off-limits.

7. Protect his time. Your boss is probably a pretty busy person. Don't waste his time and help prevent others from doing so as well. If you have a question, search for the answers on your own first. If you have the authority to make a decision, use your best judgment and make it. Don't pass things off to your boss if you have the ability to handle them. The more independent you can be—and the more you can prevent unproductive, unnecessary interruptions—the more useful you are.

8. Don't make him mediate. No boss likes to play mediator between his employees. If you're having an issue with a co-worker, do your best to handle it on your own. You're an adult, after all. Don't get your boss involved if you can help it. Little co-worker disputes can make all parties appear childish and petty, and baby sitting isn't a good use of your boss's time.

When you take the time to develop a strong relationship with your boss, your chances of getting that raise or landing the key role on that exciting new project go up exponentially. Your boss will see you as a prized asset to his team, and you'll enjoy all the rewards that go along with it.

星期日, 十二月 16, 2012

Travelling alone

Advantages of travelling alone:
1. Me time
Spending a few days by yourself (and for yourself) in a foreign city where no one knows you is probably one of the best ways to focus on yourself and enjoy what life has in store for you. We got too caught up in our busy daily routines sometimes that we neglect on treating ourselves well. Travelling solo is a good way to have some “me time” to treat yourself with the new environment, atmosphere, food, and vibe.
2. Flexibility
When you are travelling alone, you can afford to be very flexible with your own schedule. You can go to anywhere at anytime you want, or make any last minute changes to your itinerary if there is a need to without being concerned if your friends would mind. Happen to pass by that cute little café down the corner of the street on the way to the museum? Just stop by, walk in, and try it.
3. Courage and independence
One of the greatest takeaways from travelling solo is probably learning on how to get out of our little comfort zones to just be out there in new places. Finding your way around the city by yourself, trying hard to speak a new language, meeting with new people along the way, and the list goes on. I guess it’s also fair to say that you will find courage from all these and take these little steps to learn to be more independent – at least in a foreign land.
 
Tips for travelling alone:
1. Be “thick skinned”
Definitely the most important tip – I find that we have to “thicken” our skins when we are travelling by ourselves. If you want your photo to be taken in front of that historical landmark, you have to ask other people to help you (be careful though, to make sure that they do not run away with your camera). When you’re eating alone at the bar, do not think that other people are looking at you; just think and look as if you’re a food critic so that’s why you’re eating there by yourself. When you make mistakes while trying to speak the foreign language, do not be afraid! At the end of the day, you’ll just laugh it off and have fun with it.
2. Be wise
By being wise here, I mean that you can choose to go to places that are more suitable for solo travellers. Join a group walking tour of the city to get a lively introduction of your new surroundings and meet with other solo travelers. Or view exhibitions at the museum since you have no one to distract you now while immersing yourself in those art pieces. Choose to dine at restaurants with bar seating where they are tailored for solo diners.
3. Smile
And always be friendly to the locals. People are generally nice at the core, so if you’re nice to them, they’ll be happy to talk to you too and help you if you need directions or recommendations. Remember to smile as and when you can. And you can never go wrong.
While travelling in general gives you new experiences and touches the soul, travelling solo additionally allows you to meet more new people along the way, which has got to be one of the ultimate joys of the journey. And it’s up to you to make the connections on route. You are traveling solo, but definitely not alone.

Dec 2012

December 2012 passes in a breeze. We are already half way over the month. With two duty travels plus the festival and birthday celebrations, i really have no time for much thoughts.

The first duty travel went thru with completing three Aust states' inspections in 5 days. And within the 5 days, its almost flying everyday, international and domestic travels. That is an experience.

Coming up soon is the BJS office inspection- I am stressed in a way the bosses will be joining in the site tour. Furthermore, the minus zero degrees temperature would not be favourable to me.

Local work still got to be managed as well. Let's hope things goes well. And we can welcome a wonderful 2013!

星期二, 十一月 20, 2012

Nov 2012

November has been a much better month. Work and projects still going on but not as stressful as previously.

The only irritating thing is still the new VP. She is simply too kah poh, wanting to know too much... from wearing jacket, to tying my hair, to my nail colour, my foundation and whether i am attached.

And i hate the way she ask you questions like she don't trust you. Irritating woman. I prefer male bosses... bring back the male boss please!!

 

星期四, 十月 18, 2012

Arghhhh

Stress still ongoing... For work. Restless sleeps, poor appetite, plus sick now. I am miserable...

星期六, 九月 29, 2012

Nightmare

Work haven't been smooth and new female vp is bad to me... Bully me cos I am most junior and I feel she's xiao li can dao.. I don't like her!!!

星期二, 九月 25, 2012

Sept 2012

It's a nightmare. Worst month of my work life. So many deadlines to meet and all very very critical which cannot be missed.

It's terrible. Loss of sleep and appetite. I am burnt out.

星期五, 八月 31, 2012

VP farewell 31 Aug 2012

Went into his room to wish him all the best and he offered his big arms to hug me!!

I am quite shocked, i only intended to shake hands...

星期三, 七月 25, 2012

Happy month of July

Arrival of my second niece and moving to a more spacious cubicle :")

星期二, 七月 03, 2012

Two big news this and last week

1. My VP resigned. Joining an American firm.
2. My upgrading after 6 months of covering.

I wonder how item 1 will affect me and how it will turn out to be?

星期一, 六月 11, 2012

13 June

VP coming back on Wed. Time flies... but looking forward to the celebrations this week. Father's day celebration on wed at Jumbo East Coast, meeting fm on Thurs for Prego and Justina bdae celebration on Fri, place TBC :)

星期五, 六月 08, 2012

Slim for xiao S

很多人問我怎麼瘦的?1.我三餐都吃,但澱粉只吃半碗,主要是喝湯,營養夠又不會胖(特別感謝微閣養生月子湯品 www.wegolife.com 這兩個月的提供)2.生完第10天左右穿調整型內衣,肚子才會消下去3.坐完月子開始運動,快走或滑步機30分鐘,一定要噴汗4.8點以後不吃東西,所以晚餐盡量早吃!加油,別放棄

星期四, 六月 07, 2012

Don't fix it if its ain't broken

If something is working adequately well, leave it alone. I believe so. But some people just don't.

星期六, 六月 02, 2012

Capricorn

魔羯对于不喜欢的人不会给予任何机会,而且他们知道长痛不如短痛的道理,如果魔羯勉强接受了你,那也是出于一种同情心,但是交往没几天他们就开始内疚,他们认为怜悯的爱对追求者来说是一种伤害,如果追求者不理解的话,放心最长不超过一年,魔羯会很理智的告诉你别在联系了,她或他会消失的无影无纵.

星期三, 五月 30, 2012

Sold!

$2000

Crossed fingers

Vp is away for the next two and a half weeks. Hope everything goes well at work during this period ----

星期三, 五月 16, 2012

Athletics meet 2012

Training yesterday and I forgot its just a rehearsal. Put in my best shot, over exerted myself and ended up with two pulled hamstrings.

I should have reserved my energy for the actual event this sat. Silly me.

星期二, 五月 15, 2012

Busy week in may

Tues- training for athletics training

Fri- wedding dinner at traders hotel

Sat- actual athletics meet at Tampines stadium

星期四, 五月 10, 2012

Tomorrow

marks the 6th month anniversary of my work coverage. What a tough six months!

星期四, 四月 26, 2012

Funny

During my dept lunch function today, my colleague challenged me to announce my waistline because i said as a man he is skinnier than me. I cannot be challenged hence everyone in my group including my VP knows that my waist is 27 inches.

That's embarrassing!

星期一, 四月 16, 2012

有一种单身叫“宁缺毋滥”

朋友,不知道你是否会有这样的感觉?

想恋爱,想让自己不再寂寞,

可是当恋爱来了,你只想逃脱。

有时候当自己静下心来会觉得自己的执着很可笑,为什么不去恋爱?

为什么要让自己单身呢?

难道是爱上了孤独爱上了寂寞吗?

其实不然,因为有一种单身叫“宁缺勿滥”。

宁缺勿滥的人,他们对爱很专一也很执着,他们有自己独特的思想,能够坚持自己;

宁缺勿滥的人,他们在茫茫人海中只想找一个能让自己对上眼的人,他们可以让自己孤独让自己寂寞就是不可以让自己随便和人恋爱;

宁缺勿滥的人,他们是最容易去相信感觉相信缘份的人,哪怕是一件很小的巧合他们也会单纯的和缘份联想在一起;

宁缺勿滥的人,他们不会轻易的去恋爱,但如果一旦对某人有好感就会坚持不懈,定下自己的心,他们绝不会花心;

宁缺勿滥的人,他们是有所要求的,在心里也会有对另一半的憧憬,希望彼此的遇见是一个浪漫美丽的邂逅;

宁缺勿滥的人,他们会有自己的异性朋友,但交往中绝对会为彼此设定底线,不会轻易越过;

宁缺勿滥的人,他们尊重婚姻,尊重感情,他们不会随便开始,而真正和别人交往了那么其实在心里自然而然就会把对方当成是婚姻的对象,因为婚姻而恋爱,他们是珍惜生活的人。

宁缺勿滥的人,他们不会因为结婚而结婚,哪怕周围压力重重。

有朋友说,现在的社会已经不流行宁缺勿滥了,应该宁滥勿缺,想想也是,没有过程怎么会知道适不适合?有没有结果呢?

难道就让自己一点点的长大让光阴一点点的流逝?

可是当他们遇到一个让自己没有好感的人或许他们会因为礼貌而和对方有短暂的停留,但绝不会长久,他们尊重自己的感情也尊重别人的感情,他们不会浪费对方的时间。或许有些人他们的恋爱只会几个月,结束了,然后很快又开始了新的感情,因为他们博爱,他们只是想找个异性伴侣陪伴自己让自己摆脱寂寞,因此,当他们结束一段又一段情时他们不会有任何伤感,因为他们没有用过情,确切的说没有用过很深的感情,他们会对所有的异性都有好感,不会执着,相对于宁缺勿滥之人他们会更聪明,更现实,也更会在恋爱中保护自己,

他们在恋爱中会选择理性的对待。

而宁缺勿滥的人不是这样,

别人永远无法把他们与花心联系在一起,

他们会将一段情维持很长,

而结束时他们会伤心、痛苦、难过,

因为他们曾经付出过,

而他们的结束一般是因为之间真的不适合而分开,

他们希望自己的每一段情都是自己刻骨铭心的回忆,

更会因为想寻找一份真爱而执着和等待,哪怕是用一生。

他们是感性的动物,

喜欢思想,

喜欢探索人生,

他们会对未来的生活充满好奇和幻想,

他们是纯情而又矫情之人,真诚而又善良之人。

老天会考验他们的毅志与耐力,

当他们度过了,便会收获真爱。

星期日, 四月 08, 2012

NYC & Canada Mar 2012

Two weeks away from home in a big city NYC. Really missed home and the local food. NYC particularly Manhattan is a big city with busy streets and many many tourists from all over the world. It's quite overwhelming for me.

Canada eg, Quebec on the other hand is different, slow and scenic. Each has its own attractiveness.

The shopping in NYC is fantastic... all the brands we can't get in Singapore are there. It's just a matter of deep pockets.

East Coast USA is a fairly different creature from the West Coast whereby people are more laid back.

I think i will want to go back to the West Coast LA next time for road trips. Simply can't drive in Manhattan. The drivers are horrendous.

星期日, 三月 04, 2012

Dream

Last night i dreamt that i resigned from my current company and i regreted my decision so much. In my dream, i keep asking myself why did i rush to make that decision? Can i take back my resignation letter?

When i woke up i am so glad its just a dream. Stressed to ensure that i perform well!

星期六, 二月 25, 2012

New fav drink

Iced Milo!! And mind you it's not easy to get one that is nice. Maybe i should try mixing one at home.

星期二, 二月 14, 2012

Valentine's Day

Kept feeling uneasy abt today since one or two weeks ago. Finally the day is almost over. Nothing spectacular. Just some chocolates from colleagues and a nice lunch. After that a long awaited hair cut to shoulder length :)

I do see alot of pretty singles around in town shopping either alone or with another single instead of going dating on this special day. Is this the new trend?

Girl power!

星期二, 一月 24, 2012

Superwoman

I have a new found respect for my youngest auntie. She is really the modern superwoman. She is successful in her career, she manages the household well and she even has to see everything in the house when her husband is nursing his knee after operation. She also has to cope with her restless kids alot of the time.

And mind you she has a two storey semi-d. She's almost like half a man in the family.

I find her really capable but i am sure what she wants eventually is a time where she can relax and rely totally on her loved ones. That's what all women wish for i guess.

星期日, 一月 22, 2012

除夕 2012

小年夜,真难得有机会轻轻松松地在家里帮忙和家人在一起。

往年总是忙忙碌碌工作回到家已是下午。再休息一下就已是吃年夜饭的时候。

让我们珍惜和家人和谐相处的好时光!龙年一定行大运!

星期六, 一月 14, 2012

Quote

有时候,上天没有给你想要的,不是因为你不配,而是你值得更好的。

星期五, 一月 13, 2012

Friday the thirteen

Fell down today :(

星期四, 一月 12, 2012

Bad day

Early in the morning this guy from airport raised his voice at me because i was angry at him for no progress on an issue. Then afternoon argued with another client's agent.

Why are there issues popping up everyway now and then?

星期日, 一月 01, 2012

Happy 2012

Hope this will be a better year of dragon!