I just completed the 3 day course for the above and for the benefit for those who have not attended, here are the 7 habits-
1. Be proactive
2. Begin with the end in mind
3. First thing first
4. Think win-win
5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood
6. Synergize
7. Sharpen the saw
I heard from the facilitator that the 8th habit, latest one is "Find your voice".
Whenever i feel nervous, i will have an urge to vomit. Like i did a presentation on the last day of the course, i was so nervous cos there are captains, first officers, SMs in the same course. So i badly wanted to present well. Hence throw up some breakfast.
Anyway what is so unusual abt this course is not the course itself. But this guy that i met. Let's call him K.
On the first day, K came and sat beside me. We started a normal conversation but he had unusually more things to say to me. So being friendly, i just chatted with him. After the course ended on the first day, he asked me if i wanted to go for a drink somewhere near. So i thought since he is quite a nice guy, i dont mind going out. After the drink i thought of walking home since eastpt is so near my house, but he insisted on sending me home.
But the scary part comes the second and third day where he keep following me where i go, giving me extra attention, sitting next to me whereever i am (either canteen or computer room),talking to me alot, saying both of us are similar in many ways, offer to wait with me for my father to come, lend me book to read.
I admit that on the first day, i find him quite a nice guy. But after the second and third day, i was quite put off by him cos he talked too much and i am not in the least interested in his topics and everything that he had to say.
Today, he even wanted to share my drinks. And i rejected him straight away. Excuse me i have only known you for 3 days. But of course i didnt say that to him. I just said that it is an hygiene issue.
He also asked for my mobile which i gave to him as a friend. But i think he knows i have started to avoid him for the last 2 days.
There are other cute guys in the course which i am more interested in. Why didnt they make the move like K?
星期五, 五月 23, 2008
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