Pissed

I am abit pissed off with my staff.

It happens that this week i have two long lunches. One is for a birthday and another is for a farewell. So the lunches took longer than usual and i went back to the office at abt 3pm. Usually if i go out for lunch, i'll be back abt 2pm.

Anyway, i know she was not very happy on the first occasion. I could feel it when i passed her work to do.

Then today, she told me straight that she dont think its right that i go such long lunches. She said "people" are noticing it.

I am angry man! You are not my boss, you are my subordinate. What right have you to tell me off? I am not compromising or delaying my work and urgent matters.

I respect you because you have been in the company for very long. But you dont have the right to tell me what to do. I will accept it if my boss tells me that.

To avoid any argument, i tell her i will minimise in future. But i still cant get over it!!